How do I make my marriage work?

by Onyinye Ogbuka

How do I make my marriage work?

You can make your marriage work by being intentional and that is deciding that you are going to be committed to your partner for the rest of your life. You can also make your marriage work by accepting the fact that you are human and you cannot be perfect and you are bound to make mistakes and each time you make a mistake, it is important that you apologize.

How can I make my marriage work?

Communication; one of the most effective ways to make your marriage work is to make sure that you communicate as often as possible and as clearly as possible. The hallmark of a relationship is communication, the strength of a relationship is tested with communication. To ensure a working marriage, it is important that the line of communication is always open. One of the things to guard jealously in your marriage is your communication. At no time should your marriage be bereft of communication because once your marriage experiences a break in communication, it will give room for other things that can destroy your marriage.

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Appreciation; it is very important to always appreciate your partner and show them how thankful you are. You can do this verbally or you can do this by getting them gifts or doing any other thing they like. The mindset of not seeing the need to appreciate your partner is dangerous because your partner would feel unappreciated. Your partner is human and would love to hear some words of appreciation as to how much you are grateful to have them in your life and what their presence in your life means to you.

Couple time; one of the easiest ways to create friction in marriage is when both couples do not spend as much time together as they did before. This creates a feeling of separation and over time, both couples begin to drift apart. This also affects communication, so it’s important that as a couple, to make your marriage work, you have to create couple time together. This can involve going on dates, taking walks together or just simply cuddling on the couch. No matter how busy both of you are or no matter how stressed you are with family responsibilities like having to take care of the children, make sure that you create enough time so that you and your partner can spend time together. You can work around the kids by dropping them off with trusted friends or family just to enjoy some time out together.

Learn to forgive; your partner is not perfect because definitely, your partner is human. To err is human, to forgive is divine, and the fastest way to destroy your marriage is by buckling up or refusing to let go of the mistakes of your partner or things they might have intentionally or unintentionally done to hurt you. So it is important to learn to forgive your partner if you find it hard, make sure you confront them about it and get them to apologize if it will make it easier for you to forgive.

Honesty and trust; the bedrock of a solid relationship is trust, it’s very important to be honest with your partner because honesty builds trust. Be honest with your partner about your mistakes, your finances, your whereabouts, and about your partners or your friends. This makes it easier for your partner to trust you and to be able to vouch for you in any way. You don’t want a marriage that is built on lies so it’s important to keep your partner in the loop with every step that you take.

Commitment and selflessness; deciding to be married is signing a warranty to be selfless. The easiest way to destroy your marriage is to be selfish. The proof of love is sacrifice. At some point in your life, you would have to make sacrifices in your marriage that might hurt your ambitions or desires but will be beneficial to your family. Commitment is not a walk in the park, commitment is deciding to be there even when it’s not favorable. To keep your marriage going, make a decision to be committed and give it your all.

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