If anybody can fake anything, it is women this gender fakes everything, from love to orgasm, to honesty, it can sometimes be hard to know if your girl loves you deeply.
women can manipulate a lie to be true and if there is no proper investigation, that lie would fly to be Truth. How can you know if the girl you are dating or married to truly loves you as she claims?
Maybe she tells you she loves you but it is hard for you to believe that truly she loves you or it is just the normal female tricks where they pretend to love but deep down it’s not real.
To be honest it is very hard to know when a girl truly loves a man from her relationship with him. But you can truly deduce if her love is real through some actions, traits, and conversations, you have with her.
- List Of Signs To Know If Your Girl Truly Loves You Deeply.
- 1. Does she talk about her future plans with you?
- 2. Does she include you in the plans?
- 3. Does she talk about building a family with you?
- 4. Does she support you?
- 5. Does she care for you?
- 6. Is she concerned about your growth?
- 7. Does she worry about your safety?
- 8. Does she talk about how much she loves you to her friends?
- 9. How easily does she forgive you when you wrong her?
- 10. Try going long distances for a while and see if she changes.
List Of Signs To Know If Your Girl Truly Loves You Deeply.
1. Does she talk about her future plans with you?
Be careful if your girl doesn’t talk about her future plans with you because if a girl truly loves you she would constantly tell you about her dreams, goals, ambition, and plans.
Telling you all her future goals means she trusts you enough and she believes her vision is safe with you. Not only that.
She believes you will be a good support system to push, encourage and propel her to believe in herself and that she can achieve it.
If your girl truly loves you deeply and tells you things and she also sees that you always give her listening ears and encouragement to pursue her goals, then she automatically sees you as a complete part of the journey process that she would never forget nor ignore if she eventually achieves it
2. Does she include you in the plans?
It is not just enough to tell you her plan or dreams, does she include you in the plan or process?
You can’t just be a listener she needs to love you enough to be included in the planning processes and this includes taking up roles or handling some decisions or walking her through some activities.
If your woman only tells you about her goals without giving you some role to play that means she doesn’t feel the need to make you a part of it possibly because she doesn’t love you enough to take the glory when the success arrives or she thinks you might not be in the picture hence she just tells you stuff but doesn’t give you any responsibility to handle.
3. Does she talk about building a family with you?
Family is the future and family is love and family is forever. For a girl who loves you truly from the depth of her heart, she wants to be with you forever, she wants to carry on your legacy by having children with you. Ask her if she sees you as the father of her unborn kids, and hear her response.
If she is unsure then she might not really love you enough or love you so deeply to want to spend the rest of her life with you.
If your girl loves you deeply she would continue to talk to you about marriage and she would also be trying to do everything possible to prepare her and you for marriage, by building a stable income source together with you.
Moving into a bigger space and introducing you to her friends, family, and associates.
4. Does she support you?
Any woman who supports you loves you truly and deeply because most women are entitled they rather want to be supported than to support.
If she supports your dreams, and goals with her resources and connection then she loves you deeply and truly.
Love is all about giving sharing and caring, there is absolutely no love without giving and sometimes you do not need to ask, she just feels she can do one or two things to help. And she comes through this is a clear sign that she has your interest and she is glad to support.
5. Does she care for you?
There is no way you would claim that a woman who doesn’t care about you loves you. If she doesn’t care about your health, safety, finances, growth, or your relationship with others then she doesn’t truly love you deeply.
To love is to care, if your girl truly loves you, you would know from the way she cares about you. She won’t go for days without checking on you, she won’t wait for you to always call her or message her.
6. Is she concerned about your growth?
Is she really concerned about your growth or she isn’t really concerned about whether you grow or not?
Whether your circle of friends is not forward-thinking she really isn’t bothered, whether you move with a chain of smokers or alcoholics who have no future ambition, or goals.
Then she might not be truly in love with you, because if she loves you she would want the best for you. Just like the way parents love and want the best for their kids.
That’s because they love them dearly and truly, they wouldn’t sit and watch them take a bad decision and let them have it. If a lady truly loves you she would care for you in every area and calls your attention to situations or issues that might have a negative effect on you.
7. Does she worry about your safety?
Yes, you are an adult I get it, you can do as you like, go where you like without anybody stopping you.
But nonetheless, if your girl truly loves you she would be worried for your safety.
She would always check in to be sure you are good and safe.
Not necessarily because of insecurity in your city or country but because she just cares to be sure you are not in any form of trouble whatsoever.
You need to watch out for how much she cares about your safety and wellbeing
8. Does she talk about how much she loves you to her friends?
If a woman deeply loves a man, she will be all over the roof telling any and everybody about how much she’s in love.
If she doesn’t do this, then probably she doesn’t want to break the news because she isn’t sure if you love her as much as she does so it wouldn’t be a case of one-sided love.
But if you both are on the same page in your love and relationship she definitely would be telling her friends about you, how much she loves you, how she’s going to spend the rest of her life with you, and all the bliss she’s enjoying being with you. She will be talking about her dates, dinner nights, outings, and even the sex she won’t hide anything
9. How easily does she forgive you when you wrong her?
You can know if your woman truly loves you deeply by how quickly she forgives you when you have misunderstandings. The person who claims to love you would never hold on to trivial issues and begin to avoid you or ignore you.
True love is forgiving and doesn’t keep malice.
A lady who doesn’t truly love you will leave you begging for forgiveness for days while carrying on with her normal activities.
You could even be living in the house yet she isn’t bothered, she would do her things normally and ignore you till she feels ready to speak to you about the issue or forgive you.
10. Try going long distances for a while and see if she changes.
People change and there is this saying that “out of sight out of mind”. For you to know if your girl truly loves you, you need to try to be away from her locality for some time.
Distance is a good test of true love
Try this and while at it, check if she changes. Observe if there are changes in her attitude towards you.
Does she check on you as often as she used to, is she the same, or she has changed and you are beginning to observe some character that wasn’t there before?
Staying apart for some time will reveal some traits that were not clear when you were closer together.